Wanderlog -> Cambridge University: conference + exploring Isaac Newton’s apple tree & Stephen Hawking’s traces and London

Hey beautiful friends & enemies~

This post is—once again—a little late… but hey, as I always say: better late than never, right? 😄

Back in April, I had the chance to go on a truly special work trip. Along with colleagues from our ASC (Centre for Asian Studies) and many others from our Vytautas Magnus University, we traveled to England to take part in the 16th Conference on Baltic Studies in Europe (CBSE), titled “Converging Paths: The Baltic Between East and West.” The conference took place from April 24–26, 2025, at the University of Cambridge (yes, that Cambridge—still feels surreal!). I was honored to present my work on “Historic Trauma in Collective Memory: Soviet Sentiment in Lithuanian History Education”—which is actually should have been a chapter in my PhD thesis. Sharing this research in such a prestigious setting, and hearing from so many brilliant minds, was an unforgettable experience.

During this trip, I definitely became a bit of a burden to my PhD supervisor. We flew together from Kaunas airport, and since our hostels happened to be on the same street, I ended up tagging along with him most of the time. Eventually, we arrived… And I fell so hard in love with oat milk iced chai ❤

As my presentation was scheduled for the very last day of the conference—which turned out to be a blessing in disguise. It gave me plenty of time to explore other panels and talks, and also to wander through the charming streets of this old university town. And honestly? I low-key fell in love with Cambridge. From the historic architecture to the peaceful college courtyards, the whole place has an atmosphere that feels almost magical. But what really stole my heart were the cozy little bookstores and the irresistible ice cream shops (I may or may not have become a regular at both).

Random TMI > Funny enough, back in middle school, I dreamed of studying astronomy in Switzerland—don’t ask me why Switzerland, I have no idea! Maybe it just sounded beautifully distant and full of stars. But reality hit when my physics grades turned out to be… well, tragic. Chemistry made a bit more sense to me, so when I had to choose a science subject in high school, I went with that instead. And just like that, my dream of becoming an astronomer drifted off into the cosmos. Still, my fascination with the universe never really faded. My heart still beats faster when I look up at the night sky or pick up a book by Stephen Hawking. In fact, even though I barely understood half of what he wrote at the time, I read all his books in middle school. So being in Cambridge—where Hawking once lived, worked, and reshaped our understanding of the cosmos—felt incredibly special. Like walking in the footsteps of a childhood hero. So we explored couple of the science traces as well! While exploring we even got lost and stuck in some secret garden with lots of viol practice sounds….

My love for beer might get out of hand one day haha just kidding. But I had more than a great time with my fellow colleagues just chilling exploring and eating tons of delli food.

What more (my supervisor’s favorite phrase, lol), we added an extra day to explore London, and after my presentation, the whole group set off on an adventure—starting with the train from Cambridge to King’s Cross After arriving, we first checked out the Harry Potter attractions and then split up for a while before meeting again in the evening.

I used that time to finally cross something off my bucket list: having a cocktail alone at a bar. Okay, technically it was a bit of a cheat, since my best friend’s amazing boyfriend works at the bar—but still, I went in by myself. At first, it felt so awkward just sitting there alone with my thoughts. I definitely felt a little out of place. But Maison Assouline (the bar’s name) turned out to be so welcoming that I quickly relaxed. No one judged me, the atmosphere was stunning, and by the end, I actually enjoyed the experience so much. It really felt like a little success for me. After one or two drinks, I left my things at the bar and went for a walk. That’s when I stumbled upon something special: a Polène boutique. My grandpa had given me money instead of a birthday gift this year, telling me to pick something I’d truly love and remember him by. And there it was—this shop appearing almost by chance in front of me. I knew right away that this would be the perfect gift from him. So in one day, I not only had a presentation at Cambridge univ, checked off a bucket list item but also found a treasure I’ll cherish forever. In the eventing we met up with our ASC for another quick chat and beer and called it a day.

The next day was for more exploration of London. Btw, it was marathon time and I saw how someone fainted and was carried away.. I hope this person is ok…

And that wrapped up my little conference getaway in England with my lovely ASC friends—it couldn’t have been better!

P.s. During this trip I once again realizes that I am an introvert. It’s kind of funny — people often assume I’m super outgoing and love constant interaction (which, to be fair, I do enjoy)… but the truth is, my social battery is surprisingly small. I’m an INFP for a reason. Once that battery runs low, I shift from chatty and engaged to full-on introvert mode. I’ll just sit quietly, still enjoying the atmosphere around me, but not really saying much. And that’s usually when people who don’t know me well yet start to worry — asking if I’m okay, if something’s wrong, or if I’m upset. But nope, nothing dramatic is going on. I’ve just used up all my “outgoing, talkative self” for the day and settled back into being the calm, quiet observer I naturally am with the wish of just hiding under a blanket reading or inch watching some show. And actually I have lived together with quite of my friends together and they will know the best how I will eventually not come out of my room for days (with the exeption of toilet breaks) but that is the true beauty of being close with someone more than polite chit chat being able to enjoy silence which is far from awkward is something that is especially important for me in friendship I guess.

In the end I feel so thankful to be working in such lovely environment sending much love for my colleguess ❤

And for now…

…stay tuned

Au revoir

– M

Café Chronicles -> Seoul Yeonsinnae 연신내

Hey beautiful friends and enemies~

Here I am again with another part of my Café Chronicles series, where I take you along to my favorite coffee spots. As I’ve mentioned before, one of my greatest joys is soaking in beautiful spaces while sipping on a perfectly brewed cup.

Beyond the hours I spent tucked away in libraries and cozy corners, I also had the chance to work remotely quite a bit during my field research trip — huge shoutout to the Korea Foundation (한국국제교류재단) for making that possible! Back then, I loved grabbing my laptop, heading out for coffee, and switching up my surroundings. And since I was living in Yeonsinnae (연신내) — remember my house hunting in Seoul (서울) post? Haha — I made it my personal mission to explore the local café scene and see what hidden gems I could find. That said, I want to share a couple of my favorite places with you. I’ll just list five (even though there are a few more!) so this post doesn’t get too long.

YM COFFEE HOUSE (YM커피하우스) 📍 21-8 Yeonseo-ro 29-gil, Eunpyeong-gu, Seoul, South Korea 서울특별시 은평구 연서로29길 21-8

Tucked away in the heart of Yeonsinnae (연신내), YM COFFEE HOUSE (YM 커피하우스) is a cozy gem set in a former traditional Korean home. With warm wooden interiors, vintage touches, and soft lighting, it’s the perfect spot to relax for hours. The open coffee bar lets you watch skilled baristas craft hand-drip coffees (핸드드립 커피), turning each cup into a true craft. Their dedication to quality shines through every sip, and their desserts—especially the crème brûlée and tiramisu—are absolutely delicious. Plus, it’s super work-friendly. I often came here to work on my thesis or write blog posts, thanks to the inviting yet focused atmosphere. If you’re in 연신내, make sure to stop by. Whether for coffee, a quiet read, or a cozy work session, YM COFFEE HOUSE won’t disappoint. Bonus: you can also buy their roasted beans to take home, ground or whole.

🕒 11:30 AM – 11:00 PM (Closed on Tuesdays) 📷https://www.instagram.com/ymcoffeeproject?utm_source=chatgpt.com


FLUP Coffee (플럽커피) 📍 3rd Floor, 7-11 Yeonseo-ro 29-gil, Eunpyeong-gu, Seoul, South Korea 서울 은평구 연서로29길 7-11 3층

Nestled on the 3rd floor in the Yeonsinnae (연신내) neighborhood, FLUP Coffee (플럽커피) offers a peaceful escape from the city’s hustle with its sleek, modern vibe. The café’s design is simple yet sophisticated, featuring clean lines and a soft, muted color palette that creates the perfect environment for focused work or a relaxing coffee break. Their minimalist philosophy carries through from the stylish interior to the carefully curated menu, where every cup of coffee is crafted with precision and care. While their selection of desserts is delightful and the coffee consistently good, it’s the serene atmosphere and refined aesthetic that keep me coming back time and again. Whether you’re settling in with your laptop or diving into a good book, FLUP Coffee is a quiet haven in the heart of the city.

🕒 12:00 PM – 10:00 PM (Daily) 📷 https://www.instagram.com/flupcoffee/


HOB AND NOB COFFEE (홉앤놉 커피) 📍2nd Floor, 811 Tongil-ro, Eunpyeong-gu, Seoul, South Korea 서울특별시 은평구 통일로 811, 2층

Located in Eunpyeong-gu (은평구), Seoul, HOB AND NOB COFFEE (홉앤놉 커피) is approximately a 5-minute walk from Yeonsinnae Station (연신내역). A cozy café known for its warm ambiance is definitely worth checking out! The café’s interior features clean lines, natural wood accents, and ample natural light (love the biiig window), creating a serene environment perfect for both relaxation and productivity. Their menu offers a selection of expertly brewed coffees and delightful desserts, making it a favorite spot for locals and visitors alike. Their French toast is really soooo good!

🕒12:00 PM – 8:00 PM (Closed on Wednesdays) 📷https://www.instagram.com/hob_n_nob/?utm_source=chatgpt.com


Dotdotdot2 (닷닷닷2) 📍 1st Floor, 21 Yeonseo-ro 27-gil, Eunpyeong-gu, Seoul, South Korea 서울 은평구 연서로27길 21 1층

Just a quick 7-minute walk from Yeonsinnae Station (연신내역), Dotdotdot2 (닷닷닷2) stands out as a trendy café where modern design meets a lively, hip atmosphere. The space feels effortlessly cool — think bold pops of color, quirky art, and a laid-back yet energetic vibe that makes it a favorite hangout for creatives and coffee lovers alike. Their menu isn’t just about great coffee; it’s a playground of flavors and aesthetics. From beautifully crafted lattes to eye-catching dessert plates, every order feels like a little celebration. Whether you’re snapping photos for the ‘gram or just soaking up the café’s unique energy, Dotdotdot2 brings a fresh twist to the Seoul coffee scene. They also give you small chocolates to every cup you order! P.s. they are perfect for a night cup or some last minute studying as they have open until dawn!

🕒 11:00 AM – 4:00 AM 📷 https://www.instagram.com/dotdotdot.seoul.2/?utm_source=chatgpt.com


Sojon: (소존:) 📍1st Floor, 5-13 Tongillo 73-gil, Eunpyeong-gu, Seoul, South Korea 서울특별시 은평구 통일로73길 5-13, 1층

Nestled in the quiet streets of Yeonsinnae (연신내), S0jon (소존:) is a calm and minimalist café perfect for those moments when you want to slow down. The space is bright and airy, filled with natural light and simple, clean design that instantly puts you at ease. I love coming here when I need a peaceful spot to sip quality coffee and focus—whether it’s reading, writing, or just taking a break from the city buzz. Their vibe is understated but inviting, as it is a small place with only couple of tables but super cozy making it a great escape without the usual café noise.

🕒 10:00 AM – 8:00 PM; Holidays: 10:00 AM – 6:00 PM; Closed every Sunday and Monday in May (last order one hour before closing) 📷 https://www.instagram.com/s0__jon/


P.S. Mondal (문달) 📍22 Tongillo 78-gil, Eunpyeong-gu, Seoul, South Korea 서울 은평구 통일로78길 22

It isn’t exactly a café, but it definitely deserves a huge shoutout for its incredible cakes and pastries. Their cheesecake, in particular, is simply outstanding same goes for the strawberry cake! The only downside? It’s strictly takeout—there’s no seating area to linger and enjoy your treats. Still, it’s totally worth a visit if you’re craving something sweet on the go!

🕒 12:00 PM to 9:00 PM (Closed on Sundays and Mondays) 📷 https://www.instagram.com/moondal_/


These are just five of my favorite cafés in Yeonsinnae (연신내), each with its own unique charm and vibe. Whether you’re looking for a cozy nook to work, a stylish spot to catch up with friends, or simply a quiet place to enjoy great coffee and desserts, these cafés have got you covered. I hope you get a chance to visit them and find your own special corner in this vibrant neighborhood. Happy café hopping!

And for now…

…stay tuned

Au revoir

– M

Wanderlog -> Ancient capital of Japan: Kyoto, Nara, Osaka

Hey beautiful friends & enemies~

Recently, I had the chance to hop over to Japan for the weekend with my mum! I had work to do in Seoul, so I figured—why not take her along and turn it into a little side adventure? It was her very first time in Japan (cue dramatic gasp!), while it was my third time visiting the country—but my first time exploring the Kyoto and Osaka area. Even more exciting, it was also the first time the two of us traveled this far just the two of us. And let me tell you… it was a whole vibe. Still, we definitely missed my lil sister, though—she couldn’t join us because of exams and her sports games. Don’t worry sis, next time you’re coming too!

Japan just has this magical energy that always makes me feel special. It’s hands down one of my favorite places to travel. We spent a couple of nights in Osaka and one in Kyoto.

Osaka (大阪市), Japan’s third-largest city, is a lively hub of culture, cuisine, and commerce in the Kansai region (関西地方) on Honshu (本州). Home to about 2.7 million people—and over 19 million in the greater metro area—it’s one of the world’s largest urban centers. Known as the “nation’s kitchen” (天下の台所) during the Edo period for its role in food distribution, Osaka remains a culinary capital today, famous for takoyaki (たこ焼き) and okonomiyaki (お好み焼き). Locals are known for their humor, friendly nature, and Osaka-ben (大阪弁) dialect.

Of course, no trip of mine is complete without a little chaos. The first surprise happened right at the airport, where my dizzy head managed to leave my phone in the toilet… and then exit the terminal, where giant signs everywhere screamed “NO RE-ENTRY.” Classic me, right? Somehow, the travel gods were smiling on me because a super kind airport worker actually helped me get back in—and I was reunited with my phone, aka my whole life. But here comes the real culture shock: when I was thanking him for his help, he gave me a light slap on the butt. Uhhh… is that a thing here? 😂 I’m still not sure if I should be confused, flattered, or mildly concerned—but hey, the journey officially began! 🚅

Next stop: our hotel adventure. We stayed at Hotel Alps in Osaka, and while the location was perfect, the staff were lovely, and the price was super reasonable—there was just one tiny detail the English booking site forgot to mention: it was a love hotel. Yep, you read that right. Now before you panic—it was actually a great stay! The room was super clean, the jacuzzi was a vibe, and honestly, I’d recommend it for anyone who’s open to, let’s say, unique cultural experiences. But let’s just say, my mum had her first little cultural shock when we walked in and saw a girl in a full-on maid costume next to a drunk guy at the self check-in counter… clearly not a romantic couple. My mum just looked at me and whispered, “They’re… probably not together, right?” 😂

Our first night in Osaka was all about soaking in the energy of the city—and where better to start than the iconic Dotonbori (道頓堀)? The area buzzes with neon lights, sizzling street food, and a chaotic charm that pulls you right in. Of course, we couldn’t skip the legendary Glico Man (a.k.a. glitchy guy in all the best tourist selfies).

We hopped on a small boat cruise through the Dotonbori canal, letting the reflections of the city lights ripple around us while sipping on a well-earned beer. Floating past the glowing signs and laughter echoing from riverside restaurants was the perfect way to wind down our first day. Simple, magical.

The next morning, we had a light breakfast at our (love lol) hotel and we set our sights on Osaka Castle (大阪城)—but instead of hopping on a train, we decided to walk. A full hour of wandering through the waking city, coffee in hand, side streets waiting to be discovered. Our first stop? Kuromon Ichiba Market (黒門市場)—Osaka’s beloved local market known for fresh seafood, fruit, and all kinds of try-worthy bites. We grabbed our first coffee here (because priorities), before strolling onward.

As we made our way toward the castle, we also had time to explore some of Osaka’s quieter corners—lovely little streets lined with plants and peaceful Shinto (神道) and Buddhist (仏教) shrines. Shinto, meaning “the way of the gods,” is Japan’s indigenous spirituality focused on harmony with nature and respect for kami (神)—spiritual beings or deities that are believed to inhabit natural objects and landscapes. These shrines, often tucked between modern buildings or nestled in quiet corners, offer a moment of calm away from the city’s fast pace. Incense in the air, the gentle ringing of bells, and the soft shuffle of footsteps on stone paths—small moments that felt surprisingly grounding.

Not long after, we stumbled upon a small, clean, and beautifully minimal café called Hikaru Coffee Roasters. Highly recommend it—great beans, calm vibes, and just the right kind of spot to sit and breathe in the city.

It was definitely time for lunch, so we headed to a cozy underground ramen shop. We were the only foreigners there, which felt a bit awkward at first, but the owners were incredibly friendly and welcoming! The atmosphere was authentic, and the ramen was absolutely delicious—just the comfort food we needed.

Finally, we arrived at Osaka Castle (大阪城), originally built in 1583 by Toyotomi Hideyoshi (豊臣秀吉), is a symbol of Osaka’s rich history. The striking five-story tower, with its white and gold exterior, offers beautiful views of the surrounding Osaka Castle Park (大阪城公園), especially during sakura (桜) season when cherry blossoms are in full bloom. Inside, the castle has been modernized into a museum, showcasing exhibits about its history and Hideyoshi’s life. Whether you’re a history lover or just seeking a peaceful escape in the heart of Osaka, Osaka Castle is a must-visit for its blend of beauty and significance.

After an adventurous walk through the park. To rest our feet and enjoy the view, we hopped on one of the little tour carts that circle the castle grounds—a fun and breezy way to take it all in. All around us, families were out enjoying hanami (花見), the beloved Japanese tradition of cherry blossom viewing. The sakura (桜) trees were in full bloom, painting the park in soft shades of pink and white. It was such a joyful atmosphere—picnic blankets, laughter, bento boxes, and petals fluttering in the wind. A perfect spring day in the heart of Osaka.

We wrapped up the day with yet another delicious meal—because in Osaka, food adventures are never in short supply. This time, we stumbled into a more unexpected omakase (お任せ) experience—not in a fancy restaurant, but in a cozy local bar. It was casual, spontaneous, and totally authentic—the kind of place where the chef chats with you while preparing each dish right behind the counter. Definitely a fun twist on the usual omakase! Afterwards, we took one last evening stroll through Dotonbori (道頓堀), soaking in the electric atmosphere. The crowds, the glowing neon signs, the sound of laughter and sizzling street food—all of it created that unmistakable Osaka vibe. It was the perfect farewell to a city that never stops buzzing.

The next morning, we set off for Kyoto (京都), Japan’s ancient capital and cultural heart. Kyoto, home to around 1.45 million people, is renowned for its rich history, preserved architecture, and spiritual heritage. Once the imperial capital of Japan for over a thousand years, it remains a place where the past lives in harmony with the present. The city is famous for its thousands of Shinto shrines and Buddhist temples, centuries-old gardens, and traditional wooden townhouses (machiya 町家). One of the most iconic aspects of Kyoto is its geisha (芸者) culture. In the historic district of Gion (祇園), you might catch a glimpse of a maiko (舞妓)—an apprentice geisha—gracefully moving through the streets in ornate kimono, a symbol of refined beauty and tradition. Kyoto’s timeless charm lies in these moments: quiet, fleeting, and full of grace.

The train we had boared sped through the countryside, and out the windows unfolded a breathtaking view—delicate cherry blossoms in full bloom, soft pink petals drifting against winding rivers, and small traditional villages. It already felt like we had stepped into a dream. We wasted no time and headed straight to one of its most iconic sites: Fushimi Inari Taisha (伏見稲荷大社), also known as the “Shrine of a Thousand Gates” (千本鳥居). Fushimi Inari is famous for its seemingly endless path of bright red torii gates (鳥居), winding their way up Mount Inari (稲荷山). Each gate along the trail has been donated by individuals or businesses, their inscriptions (奉納, meaning “dedication”) wishing for prosperity and good fortune. Walking through the tunnels of vermilion gates feels almost otherworldly — the sunlight filters through the gaps, casting shifting patterns of red and gold along the stone paths.

The hike itself is surprisingly peaceful. Though the first stretch near the entrance is bustling with visitors, as you climb higher up the mountain, the crowds thin out. The air grows cooler and the atmosphere quieter. Along the way, we passed smaller shrines, fox statues (狐像, kitsune-zō) — foxes are considered sacred messengers of the god Inari), and breathtaking overlooks where you can catch glimpses of Kyoto sprawling out below.

The full hike to the summit and back can take about two hours if you walk at a relaxed pace, but even a shorter walk up the mountain offers a truly magical experience. We still made it to the end and eventually enjoyed a traditional tea stop while on our way back down. Fushimi Inari wasn’t just a place to sightsee — it felt like a journey through history (歴史), nature (自然), and spirit (精神), all woven together in the shifting light of thousands of red gates.

Afterwards, it was time to check in. We were eager to stay in a private, authentic Japanese place rather than a hotel, so I booked a traditional-style Airbnb—and it definitely did not disappoint. Through the bathroom window, we could see a serene private garden. It truly felt like a dream. And I must stay the beds was just amazingly conformable.

Then we set off to explore Gion (祇園), and I must admit—it truly felt like a dream.

You can probably tell by now just how much I adore sakura (桜) season—despite suffering from the world’s worst allergies, haha! We continued our stroll along the lively Yasaka Street (八坂通), where the iconic Yasaka Pagoda (八坂の塔, Yasaka no Tō) suddenly appeared between the narrow, winding alleys—a postcard-perfect moment. And yes… I may or may not have had about 74 ice creams that day. But hey, who’s counting when you’re in Kyoto during spring?

On our way, we caught a glimpse of the large Buddha statue at Rokuharamitsu-ji (六波羅蜜寺), but only from a distance, as we were hurrying toward Kiyomizu-dera (清水寺), the temple on the hill. Its gates close at 6 PM, and we were determined to make it in time. Along the way, we learned something touching: the small stone statues dressed in red scarves are called Jizō (地蔵), protectors of children, especially those who have passed away. It was both moving and meaningful to discover this tradition amidst such a beautiful setting.

After our dreamy stroll through Gion (祇園), we headed off in search of dinner. We finally sat down for a meal—and it was absolutely incredible. The rain was pouring down, and it took us quite a while to find a spot. I have to admit, in moments like these, I often feel a bit shy about searching for a restaurant, especially when everything is packed. But, as fate would have it, we ended up in a hidden gem that served an unforgettable dinner.

Back at our traditional-style Airbnb, we enjoyed the cozy low table and floor cushions (zabuton 座布団) with some convenience store (konbini コンビニ) ice cream—a perfect, quiet way to end the evening.

The next morning, our to-do list was still full of Kyoto magic. We kicked off the day in a unique café that served ice cream for breakfast (yes, really!). The place had white tablecloths, polished service, and all the waiters wore white gloves—it felt like stepping into a retro film set. Super cool! Afterward some more coffee! Then we strolled through Nishiki Market (錦市場), a bustling covered arcade filled with local delicacies, snacks, and souvenirs. We even saw a shrine built direct in the middle of it. From there, we made our way toward Nijō Castle (二条城, Nijō-jō), one of Kyoto’s most important historical landmarks.

Arriving at Nijō Castle, we took a walk around the impressive stone walls and traditional gates before getting our tickets. The castle, built in 1603 as the Kyoto residence of Tokugawa Ieyasu—the first shogun of the Edo period—was unlike anything I had imagined. Inside, it was strikingly empty: no elaborate furniture or decorations like you might expect in a European castle. Instead, the minimalist design, sliding doors (fusuma 襖), and singing tatami floors (畳) reflected the refined aesthetics of Japanese architecture. P.s. inside the castle it was not allowed to take pictures.

And of course… I had to add a bit of drama to the trip. I lost my phone. I only realized it much later—right when we wanted to take a photo of the cherry blossoms. Panic set in: my phone held everything—tickets, maps, cards, Google Translate, and basically my brain. I really need to be more careful. I admit it.. But luckily, this story has a happy ending. After a frantic search and some deep breathing, I found it at the lost and found office at the castle. Shoutout to my mum for staying calm through it all—you’re the real MVP.

After our visit to Nijō Castle (二条城), we made our way to one of Kyoto’s most iconic sights: Kinkaku-ji (金閣寺), the famous Golden Pavilion. This shimmering temple, officially named Rokuon-ji (鹿苑寺), is covered in gold leaf and reflected beautifully in the surrounding pond—a sight that feels straight out of a dream.

Our final stop in Kyoto was Arashiyama (嵐山), a scenic district on the western edge of the city. We boarded the train, excited for the adventure ahead. As it was sakura (桜) season, the journey itself felt like part of the experience. Sadly, the rain started again—but nothing too bad. Luckily, my mom, always super prepared, had an umbrella. I ended up buying an adorable one from a charming traditional café where we stopped for a sweet treat. There, we enjoyed kakigōri (かき氷)—shaved ice with a delicate pear flavor—and a warm matcha (抹茶) drink served with small round grilled rice cakes, yaki-dango (焼き団子). It was the perfect little pause.

We then walked through the lush, rain-soaked Japanese gardens, which are actually part of a UNESCO World Heritage site. Despite the drizzle, the atmosphere was magical—misty trees, moss-covered stones, and that serene quiet you can only find in Japan. We also squeezed in a quick stroll through the Arashiyama Bamboo Grove (竹林の小径). Even though we were short on time and had to rush a bit, the experience was still incredible. The towering bamboo and the ethereal light filtering through gave everything a surreal, almost otherworldly feel—like walking through an ancient ethnographic painting.

From there, we made our way to Nara (奈良), a city famous for its sacred deer and ancient temples. Sadly, by the time we arrived, most of the major sights had already closed for the day—including Tōdai-ji (東大寺), home to Japan’s largest bronze Buddha, the impressive Daibutsu (大仏). Although we couldn’t see it up close, we still enjoyed a peaceful evening stroll around Sarusawa Pond (猿沢池), watching the gentle ripples and the pagoda reflections as the sun set.

Of course, we didn’t miss out on saying hello to some of Nara’s beloved deer (shika, 鹿), who bowed politely in hopes of a snack. And yes—I absolutely caved and bought the cutest yukata (浴衣) as a souvenir. Naturally, I turned the quiet park into my personal photoshoot spot and had my ever-patient mom snap about a hundred photos. Thanks, Mom! 😄

It was truly bittersweet when it came time to head home. Our trip felt far too short, and there’s still so much more left to explore. But above all, the most special part was the precious time spent with my mom—sharing laughs, adventures, and unforgettable memories. I’ll definitely be back one day to relive these beautiful moments… and to create even more.

And for now…

…stay tuned

Au revoir

– M

Café Chronicles -> Sogang Univ.

Hey beautiful friends & enemies~

As a proud Sogang child, I’ve spent countless hours on and around Sogang University (서강대학교)—whether it’s studying, training with my racquetball club, or just enjoying the familiar atmosphere. Back in 2017-2018, I first came here as an exchange student, and in 2024, I was back for my PhD research, once again calling Sogang my academic home. Naturally, after all this time, I’ve developed a deep love for certain places around campus, some of which have been my go-to spots for years, while others are new favorites that I’ve recently discovered. Here are some of my top picks around Sogang!

Alles Coffee (알레스 커피) – An absolute OG, standing strong since 2015. I’ve already raved about it in a previous post, so I’ll just link it here for anyone interested. Café Chronicles -> Seoul: alles Café 알레스카페 Trust me, it’s worth checking out! https://www.instagram.com/allescafe2015/


Kauf Rosters (카우프 커피 로스터스) -o, I absolutely love their cold brew (콜드브루)—it’s smooth, rich, and just the perfect pick-me-up. And what’s even more exciting? They recently launched a new menu, featuring an Injeolmi Tiramisu (인절미 티라미수) that’s seriously so good! If you’re a fan of traditional Korean flavors with a modern twist, this one is a must-try. Another standout from their menu is their special drink with coconut ice cream —a unique and refreshing combo that totally hit the spot. Overall, everything here is really solid, but if we’re talking about black coffee, this place really knows what they’re doing. What more the cafe has a sleek, industrial-style interior with raw concrete walls, dark tones, and minimalist decor. The space is well-balanced with modern lighting and large windows that add warmth to the moody atmosphere. Clean lines, dark wood furniture, and an open barista station create a stylish yet cozy setting perfect for coffee lovers. Its design perfectly blends modern sophistication with industrial elements, creating a refined yet edgy ambiance that feels both trendy and timeless. Definitely a must-visit for coffee lovers! https://www.instagram.com/kaufff.roasters/


Hawfinch (호핀치) – This place holds a special place in my heart because of their banana pudding, and by now, everyone knows about my obsession with it. Especially their chocolate version of it… Mhmm… The interior is a blend of earthy tones, natural wood, and soft lighting, creating a warm and inviting space for coffee lovers. It is highly praised for its high-quality coffee and carefully curated menu, offering a variety of hand-drip coffee, espresso-based drinks, and unique seasonal specials. Their latte art is stunning, making every cup feel extra special. Beyond the drinks, Café Hawfinch also serves delicious homemade desserts and pastries. If you’re lucky, you might even get a taste of their freshly baked goods, straight from the oven. The aroma inside is always incredible, making it the perfect spot to indulge in something sweet while sipping on a perfectly brewed coffee. I usually grab my morning coffee from here, as their cold brew is right up my alley—smooth, strong, and absolutely delicious. If you love aesthetic cafés with a focus on quality coffee, this place is definitely worth a visit. https://www.instagram.com/cafe.hawfinch/


The Credit (더크레딧) – one of my all-time favorite spots, and I find myself visiting almost every day. This café offers a cozy, laid-back atmosphere that makes it an ideal place to relax and enjoy high-quality coffee. The minimalist interior design perfectly matches the vibe, creating a calm, peaceful environment to either get some work done. The coffee here is consistently exceptional, and their drip coffee—both hot and cold—is my go-to. I also tried their latte variations, pretty good. In addition to their great coffee, they have a nice selection of teas. Another highlight is their French toast, which is absolutely delicious. One of the best parts is that The Credit also functions as a bar, so it’s the perfect place to unwind with a glass of wine or a gin tonic after a long day. The staff is friendly, adding to the welcoming vibe, and the ambiance is perfect for spending time with friends or just enjoying some time alone. All in all, it’s a great spot for coffee lovers, casual hangouts, or even a nightcap. https://www.instagram.com/cafe_the_credit/


Biroso Coffee (비로소 커피) – it may not be my most frequent stop, as places like Kauf, Credit, and Hawfinch usually draw me in, but every visit reminds me of just how good their coffee is. Their menu is impressive, and their Einspänner is especially delicious—rich, creamy, and perfectly balanced. What truly makes this spot special is the view; their large window overlooks Gyeongui Line Forest Park (경의선 숲길), or Yeonnam-dong’s Cherry Blossom Road (연남동 벚꽃길), which is absolutely stunning in the spring when the cherry blossoms are in full bloom. As someone who loves rain, this is one of my favorite places to visit when it’s raining. The peaceful vibe and cozy interior make it feel extra magical, especially when the raindrops tap against the window. So, definitely forth a check out. https://www.instagram.com/birosocoffee/


On&Puff – is newly opened charming bakery that combines a cozy atmosphere with the delightful aroma of freshly baked pastries. Specializing in French-style pastries, they also offer pretty decent drinks. I tried their iced americano and iced vanilla latte, both were quite satisfying. I absolutely loved their pain au chocolat and croissants, but everything they offer is delicious. It’s definitely one of the best spots for European-style bread around Sogang. The only downside is the limited seating, with only three tables inside, but the vibe and quality make it totally worth visiting. https://www.instagram.com/on_and_puff/


Calmild (카밀드) – truly lives up to its name—calm and mild. This charming café offers a perfect blend of exceptional coffee and mouthwatering food, all in a serene, minimalist environment. The space exudes warmth and comfort, making it an ideal spot to unwind or focus on some work (during the quieter hours of course). I’m a big fan of their iced Americano, which never disappoints, and their tuna sandwich is a must-try, although it’s a bit on the pricier side. Additionally, their French toast is another standout item that I absolutely love. Whether you’re in the mood for a coffee break or a light meal, Calmild delivers both in a cozy and inviting atmosphere. I do enjoy visiting it quite frequently, although I must admit, I don’t go too often due to their prices. https://www.instagram.com/calmild_home/


Cafe Anon (카페안온) – I’m mentioning this place mainly because of their Sogum Bang (소금빵) or also called Salt bread, which is absolutely one of the best I’ve had so far. A huge thanks to my friend J for introducing it to me (I first tried their Salt bread when I was in the hospital, and I instantly fell in love with it). Sogum Bang is a soft, fluffy buttery bread that’s lightly salted on the outside, creating a perfect balance between sweet and savory flavors. It’s slightly crispy on the outside, with a soft, airy texture inside. This said, while I do get their Salt Bread often, I don’t visit the café that frequently, but the Sogum Bang is definitely worth mentioning! https://www.instagram.com/cafe__anon__/


There are also places I visit occasionally, but they just don’t make it to my top list. For example, Sulton Coffee (술탄커피), (another OG I’ve known since 2017, but it’s not really my style. However, they do serve alcoholic beverages, and their peach highball is definitely worth trying. https://www.instagram.com/sulta_ncoffee/ RIP Brewing Mansion (브루잉맨숀), which I actually liked very much but that’s closed now. Really unfortunate as I loved their delicious scones. https://www.instagram.com/brewing_mansion/

P.s. Before it melts (녹기 전에) – while it’s not exactly a traditional café (though they do have a few seats inside and plenty of books to browse), this place is absolutely worth mentioning as one of my all-time favorite gelato spots near university. They offer an amazing variety of unique and ever-changing flavors, so there’s always a delightful surprise with each visit. If you’re in the area, it’s definitely a must-visit for anyone who loves creative, crazy, colorful and high-quality gelato! https://www.instagram.com/before.it.melts/

There are definitely a few more spots I still want to check out, but I haven’t gotten around to them yet. I guess it’s just my habit of picking a few favorites and sticking to them, haha!

And for now…

…stay tuned

Au revoir

– M

Seoul Odyssey Diaries -> HOSPITAL EDITION 슬기로운 병실 생활

When I started this Seoul Odyssey Diaries series I thought that I would be able to talk about cutsy aesthetic cafes and stuff… but well life is dynamic..

Everything started on a cold November evening (November 25th). My friend Bin and I were gearing up for our first private racquetball lesson at the Sport Time Sports Center in Yangjae, Seoul. She picked me up earlier, and we were super excited for our training session. After changing into our uniforms, we had our first class. It was pretty amazing because I immediately felt my Schlagkraft increasing, as well as the speed of sending the ball to the lower part of the wall.

For those unfamiliar, racquetball is a high-energy game where players take turns hitting a small rubber ball against a wall, aiming to make it challenging for the opponent to return it before it bounces twice. The objective? Outsmart and outplay your opponent to reach the agreed-upon score first.

After the training session, we got some extra time to play a couple of training games. Being the super motivated girly I am, I asked one of the guys to play a one-on-one game. It was pretty fun until I slipped and twisted my foot. Something in my ankle felt as if it ripped, and it was so painful I immediately fell to the ground and had to take a break. But everyone thought I was just tired and needed a short rest, and I didn’t mind, as my pride didn’t want to give up and be beaten just yet. Somehow, I stood up and finished the game, with adrenaline hitting my head.

The coach immediately noticed something was wrong, but another game was open, and they looked for another player, so I went in. After a couple of minutes, I felt the most disgusting feeling I ever had before—I felt something rip in my ankle and heard a strange pop sound. And then I knew—something was actually wrong. I ran out of the racquetball court, and the coach gave me some ice. Everyone seemed quite tired from today, so I somehow didn’t want to cause an inconvenience and was too shy to ask to take me to the hospital, so I just went home. The real problem is tho that I have panic fear of hospitals, doctors, and especially needles.

Eventually, I asked Minjun to take a taxi, pick me up, and go to the ER. They did not have an MRI machine, so they took an X-ray to see if my bones were okay. Thankfully, they were. Ligament problems were the main issue, I was told, but no other instructions were given, so I just went back home.

The next morning, Minjun rushed to work, and my lovely Seojin came over to help me and took me to a hospital near Sinchon, which had the best reviews in a mom’s cafe. And for real Seojin is my angel because without her help I would just…. So we went to the hospital, and the doctor there immediately even before the MRI told me that there was no other option than surgery as just looking at my ankle made it clear to him. They did a X-ray again but said that the MRI was fully booked today and I needed to come back tomorrow. The MRI tomorrow was also fully booked, but they told me they would make time in the morning right after opening, so I had to come back the next morning and should pack my hospital bag because there was no other option but to have the surgery as soon as possible. Seojin once again looked up the surgeon, and he was really highly rated and a good one, as it turned out, while I was just crying all the time. Haha, I was still super angry with the situation—I wanted to play racquetball and have fun. What’s more, I had to do my research and not have surgery, which recovery is set to at least 2 months until I could walk again and another 6 to be able to do sports… so this situation was so annoying I felt helpless and as if I don’t even know….

Eventually I went back home. And Seojin stayed with me the night, helping out, as at this point I had such bad pain I couldn’t even go to the toilet alone. And of course, I was told not to eat or drink anything after midnight as after the MRI tomorrow a direct operation would be possible.

The next morning was savage, as the first snow on the 27th beautifully covered the way to the hospital. After arriving, I did the MRI and found everything was just ripped—nerves, ligaments, etc. I was admitted right away, and surgery was scheduled for early afternoon. Tests (blood, heart etc.) were done while an IV line was inserted in my left arm. Due to my panic fear of needles, I almost fainted and had a low-key panic attack. Fun.

And then it started. First, a painful half narcosis, where a gel-like substance was injected into a nerve in my spine. After ensuring I couldn’t feel anything, I was put to sleep while strapped to the operating table, which felt pretty scary. Fun fact: I woke up during the surgery and found it freezing and a lowkey smell of blood.. Thankfully, I slipped back into sleep. The next thing I remember was seeing Seojin looking concerned while I shivered. I later learned that what was supposed to be a one-hour surgery ended up taking over two hours due to worse-than-expected conditions. One ligament was completely torn from my bone, while another was nearly shattered, complicating the procedure and prolonging it.

My surgery: ATFL, CFL repair ankle Rt. Imagine your ankle as a finely tuned orchestra, with each ligament playing its part to keep you moving gracefully. Among these, the anterior talofibular ligament (ATFL) and calcaneofibular ligament (CFL) are the lead violinists, ensuring harmony and stability. When these vital strings snap the symphony falters, and the ankle’s melody becomes a discordant tune.

The Surgical Sonata: A precise incision is made on the outer side of the ankle, unveiling the damaged ligaments beneath. The surgeon artfully reattaches the torn ligaments to the fibula, the ankle’s steadfast pillar, using an anchors. This meticulous reattachment aims to restore the ligament’s original strength and function. 

After my surgery, I endured an excruciating experience. The hospital was bustling with activity, and the staff, though highly skilled, were pretty busy. And I found myself in unbearable pain. When I called the nurse, she informed me that a potent painkiller had been administered intravenously, and she couldn’t provide more. Five agonizing hours later, unable to endure any longer, she checked and discovered that the IV had malfunctioned, leaving me without pain relief. For those five hours, I had endured the aftermath of surgery, including the incision, sutures, and bone anchor implantation, all without adequate medication. Haha.. haha.. Ha.. Thankfully she injected some extra painkillers to relieve the pain right away and made the IV function well.

I couldn’t sleep a bit because of the pain that is why the following morning I receive narcotic injections to alleviate the discomfort. But lovely people helped me endure. Eventually, a 3-week hospital stay started. Post-surgery, my ankle was put in a in a cast and wound antisepsis was performed once a day. Physical therapy becomes became the only fun activity as I was able to leave my hospital room. Wheelchair race it is for now.

Due to my injury, I had to forgo participating in the university racquetball tournament. Instead, I watched the live stream, while my friend Yubin supported me by bringing over delicious food and spending time with me. What more she got me into knitting. Yeah right.. knitting haha. I am deeply grateful to the wonderful people around me who helped me through this painful experience.

P.s. the knitted bag was for my mum as a Christmas gift, she was… let’s say quite stunned haha

Another adventure I experienced was on December 3, 2024, as I lay in the sterile confines of the hospital, the world outside was gripped by unprecedented turmoil. Former President Yoon Suk Yeol’s sudden declaration of martial law sent shockwaves through South Korea, a nation unaccustomed to such measures since the 1980s. The announcement came late at night, with the president citing the need to protect the country from “North Korean communist forces” and “antistate forces,” and to “rebuild and protect” South Korea from “falling into ruin.” My friends from back home were making fun of me, teasing that it was the best time to not be able to walk.

On December 6th, my birthday, I was granted a brief leave from the hospital. My dear friends, Seoijin and Yubin, had lovingly decorated my hospital room to celebrate. They took me out in a wheelchair to “Pog,” a cozy spot known for its European-style baked potatoes and pizzas with delightful dough where another couple of friends joined us. We also went to get some coffee and take some pictures. Afterwards, I came back to the hospital, and some more dear people visited me, and I actually had a wonderful day. I felt really thankful to have such precious people in my life. I got many heartwarming messages which made me teary, especially those from my little sister Klara and my mum. Their thoughtful gestures made my day truly special.

During my stay friends came to visit me and I was so thankful for their presence as at this time it actually felt as a present.I also got closer to the staff the nurses and docs and everyone kept joking that I moved in and made the hospital room my own. By the way, fun fact, I had to wrap my whole foot in plastic if I wanted to take a shower.

Another thing… All I did was to eat. I gained so much weight.. It is crazy. Still was very delicious. haha…….. I got three meals a day and because of my medications I had to eat at least a little bit but hospital food makes one even sadder so of course some sweets from friends and delivery food while chatting is the only thing one looks forward while in the hospital. Now I only need to loose the extra 9kd I’ve gained………

Random fact: during my hospital stay, I discovered my cherished “애착이불” (attachment blanket), which was actually a heated surgical blanket designed to keep patients warm during procedures. Despite its medical purpose, I couldn’t bear to part with it (I even took it home). This blanket, often used in medical settings to prevent hypothermia during surgeries, became my unexpected source of solace. Somehow it comforted me. This helped me also why my stitched were removed which also once again got me crying >.< ㅠㅠ

Despite the visits from friends, the confinement of the hospital room weighed heavily on me. I yearned to enjoy life beyond those walls and grappled with feelings of unfairness and existential doubt. I needed to get some work done, and I actually did so; nevertheless, the pain was pretty bad, and the best I could do was stare at my PC screen. To distract myself, I rewatched a couple of cliché K-dramas. One that was particularly fun was “Cheer Up” (치얼업), which introduced me to the OST “지금을 사랑해” (Enjoy This Moment) by Stella Jang. The soothing melody and heartfelt lyrics provided a comforting escape during those challenging times. Another K-drama that I really have really enjoyed was “When the Phone Rings” is titled “지금 거신 전화는”.

Upon my discharge on December 13th, the outside world felt more exhilarating than ever. Simply being outdoors brought immense joy. But the crutches that I had to use were more than delightful… What more, returning home presented significant challenges. My residence, perched atop a steep hill without stairs, became treacherous with the snow and ice. Navigating this path with crutches was nearly impossible, even with assistance. Moreover, taxis refused to drive to my house due to its dead-end location, further complicating my situation. These obstacles contributed to my extended hospital stay.

Eventually I had to go back to Lithuania for a week and this bought new troubles. What if the wound would pop open because of the changing pressure in the plane especially during take off and landing? Well thankfully everything went well.

Eventually I got back to Seoul and finished my tasks trying to get back to normal life as soon as possible.

As I was committed to my recovery, attending physical therapy twice a week. However, the extended period of immobility had taken a toll on my body. The muscles on my right side had atrophied significantly, leaving me unable to walk without assistance. Muscle atrophy, the loss of muscle mass and strength, is a common consequence of prolonged immobilization. Another thing was that I still felt pain in my ankle but well of course that’s normal.

Now – almost 3 months later I still have heavy pain. My ankle endured two flights from Seoul to Lithuania and back and then again so no wonder haha

I am back here in Kaunas and concentrating on the last stage of my PhD. The light in the dark is almost visible now. I also teach couple of courses so it is a busy schedule nevertheless, because of my ankle pain and still having problems to walk I feel tired sooner. Well, hopefully I am quick in recovery and can do sports again. Fingers crossed. 🤞

And for now…

…stay tuned

Au revoir

– M

#exploring&adoring 1

Hey beautiful friends and enemies,

What a whirlwind of a week it’s been! By day, I’ve been grappling with papers in Korean to finally push the history part of my thesis forward. By noon, I’ve been keeping a promise to myself to explore and have fun. So, buckle up for this week’s post where I’ll share some epic experiences, a new obsession, a dessert that blew my mind, and a must-visit beer spot.

P.S. Cozy cafes are getting their own special spotlight soon—my coffee and café obsession is on a whole new level, and I’m brainstorming the best way to share it. Stay tuned!

Ttukseom Outdoor Swimming Pool

Let’s start and talk about Ttukseom Outdoor Swimming Pool first. The weather has been as unpredictable as a reality TV show. One day, I was sizzling under the sun like a piece of bacon, and the next, I was dodging thunderstorms while still sweating bullets. Despite the chaos, I really wantede to savor my summer experience literally dive into this experience.

At just 5,000 won (about 3 euros), the pool is a steal. You can choose one slot either in the morning or evening, and the snack options are solid—think ddeokbokki, sundae, ramyeon, and more. Alcohol is a no-go, likely due to the pool being a family-friendly and safe zone. Only one thing to note: swim caps are a must, (you can wear a swim ca under a baseball capy tho) unless you want to be politely escorted out of the water.

And just another heads-up: I believe the Ttukseom Outdoor Swimming Pool is only open during the summer, so keep this info in mind for next year if you’re planning to check it out. I definitely recommend it as a fun way to cool off. Just be prepared for the reality that swimming can be a bit of a squeeze—given the number of people, you might find yourself with only a square meter of space to navigate. Still, it’s a refreshing and enjoyable experience if you’re up for it!

Ttukseom Outdoor Swimming Pool, 서울특별시 광진구 자양동 112, https://naver.me/xJiaZkRr

Beer to go

After a refreshing dip at the Ttukseom Outdoor Swimming Pool, my friend and I were on the hunt for a bite to eat. We stumbled upon a unique beer spot that turned out to be quite the discovery. It is called Bottling. The place is small on seating but has a really cool concept. You get a bracelet with a magnetic chip, which you use to pour your beer into a takeaway glass. You can either bring your own glass (which earns you a 500 won discount, about 30 cents) or use one provided by them. You only pay for the amount you pour, which is a pretty neat setup.

I’m a big fan of Korean Jeju brewery beers and always opt for their IPA if it’s available, so that’s exactly what I went for—it was incredibly refreshing.

I must admit, I returned another time alone, primarily for the popcorn. They serve it fresh and hot, and I was especially craving their caramel popcorn. Unfortunately, they didn’t have it anymore. It was a bit of a letdown, but I still enjoyed the overall experience. I ended up taking my beer to go and took a 30-minute stroll to the nearest cinema, where I finally got my caramel popcorn fix. By the time I got there, my beer was almost finished, but the walk was pleasant and the popcorn was worth the detour.

You can find it: 바틀링, 서울 광진구 뚝섬로34길 67 1층 107호, https://naver.me/FvE7Id6q

Tokyo Bingsu

Now, let’s dive into dessert. If you’re familiar with bingsu, you know Seolbing is a classic. But lately, I’ve been craving a bingsu with a twist—a Seolbing cousin with a little extra flair. Enter Tokyo Bingsu. I’d been eyeing this place for ages, and finally decided to check it out. I remember some three years ago my friend and I were debating if we want to go to Tokyo bingsu or Seolbing and eventually we decided against Tokyo bingsu but finally I went and oh boy, was that a sweet decision!

Their pistachio bingsu is an absolute game changer. As a fan of all things pistachio—Italian croissants with pistachio filling, yes please!—I was thrilled to find this gem. Tokyo Bingsu OG started in Magwon (now a chain with, I believe, five locations around Seoul), and it’s just a 10-minute ride from me. It’s now officially my new favorite spot. I also tried their tomato bingsu, which, while popular, wasn’t quite my flavor (well but MJ liked it). But that pistachio bingsu? It’s the real deal, especially here where the latest trend seems to be overly indulgent Dubai chocolate concoctions. But hey, finally, I’ve found a pistachio flavor that truly delivers.

Kuki’s Vet Visit

Now for a different kind of adventure—Kuki’s trip to the animal hospital. When it comes to finding a vet for lizards, specifically blue-tongue skinks, it’s no easy feat. Fortunately, I managed to track down a small but reputable clinic not too far from me. I took cookie with me and walked all 35 minutes by foot in 37 heat as I was afraid that the shaking of a bus and the strong airconditioner would Kuki make even sicker.

The hospital was modest, but the doctor was incredibly knowledgeable and genuinely nice. I was relieved to see someone who knew their way around reptile care.

So, why the vet visit? Kuki had been making some concerning noises—no whistling, but a peculiar clicking sound from his nose. There was no mucus or runny discharge from his mouth or nose, but the clicking, combined with his sudden lack of energy and constant thirst, had me worried. Naturally, I turned to Google for answers, which, as we know, is a bit of a hit-or-miss when it comes to health information. Google’s prognosis was pretty grim, suggesting that Kuki might not have long to live. Cue my panic attack. To make matters worse, I mistook what was actually a normal part of Kuki’s anatomy for a severe injury. I thought he had a tear in his tail, which led to a full-blown mental breakdown.

After a thorough examination, including an x-ray to rule out any serious issues, it turns out that Kuki’s main problem was constipation—probably caused by his love of sweet potato. The vet explained that Kuki’s “poopy hole” (as I call it) had slightly opened up due to the constipation, not a tail injury. Phew! Now, I just need to adjust Kuki’s diet to include more greens, although he’s not a fan of them.

By the way: The vet asked about Kuki’s age, and honestly, I’m not sure. I estimate he’s around 5-6 years old. We adopted him on August 23rd last year, which is now his official birthday. Kuki’s previous owner was considering releasing him into the wild, which was not an option I could accept (made my heart soft). And to be honest at first, I was intimidated by Kuki and hesitant to handle him, but he quickly became a part of the family.

Post-vet visit, Kuki’s trust in me took a hit. He’s now quite skittish, avoiding me, hissing, and even peeing on me when I try to handle him. I guess he did not enjoy the wet visit at all… He used to be a lap lizard, but now he’s more of a “stay away” type. We have some rebuilding to do on that front.

To keep an eye on him while I’m out, I’ve installed a CCTV camera. Since he seemed bored, I’ve let him explore the kitchen—a safe area where he won’t easily injure himself or get stuck. Fingers crossed this helps him feel a bit more at ease and less bored.

Climbing in Incheon

Finally, I took the plunge and tried climbing with my former embassy colleague and his lovely wife. I must admit, while the climbing walls look deceptively low from a distance, they are surprisingly intimidating once you’re on them.

Being on the taller side, I breezed through the initial routes with relative ease. But as the routes grew trickier, I found myself tapping out after tackling the 9th climb. Despite the session lasting less than an hour, my hands were shaking like leaves in a windstorm. It’s clear that my fitness level needs a serious boost—my previous athleticism hasn’t fared well against my recent sedentary lifestyle.

If you haven’t tried climbing, I highly recommend it. There are plenty of easy and fun routes to enjoy for beginers as well. One thing that did make me a bit uneasy was the sheer number of people at the climbing gym. As an introvert, I felt somewhat self-conscious about my climbing skills and worried that others might be judging my lack of technique. Though I doubt anyone was actually paying much attention, it still felt a bit overwhelming.

Catch Stone Climbing Gym, 경기 부천시 원미구 부천로 11, https://naver.me/xv3jlENL

And here’s a little extra to add to this adventure… Oh, the trials of public transport! I should have arrived around 11:30, but a wrong train and a series of unfortunate events (I was lucky enough to board an express train which doesn’t stop at most stops) led me to end up in Anyang—about as far from my destination as you can get. Line number 1, with its labyrinthine routes and endless directions, turned out to be my nemesis. I felt utterly clueless and flustered as I navigated my way back, finally arriving an hour late. So, a word of advice: double-check your train routes before embarking on any climbing escapades!

Oh, and a quick note: I’ve signed up for tennis classes starting Monday! It’s been ages since I did any sports, and my body is definitely feeling the need for some movement.

My hummus obsession is back

A quick note to wrap up: I was meeting some friends for dinner. We had our heart set on trying some hummus at a Turkish restaurant, but alas, it had closed. I was pretty bummed, especially after the one-hour trek from home. However, the detour allowed me to explore the area. We took a stroll around Iteawon and its neighboring areas.  And eventually discovered a cool beer spot with an impressive selection. The nachos were decent, and the sauce and salad had a healthy vibe. What’s the best tho they had sour beer which I am huge fan of.

But fear not, hummus lovers! I’ve got some excellent recommendations for you:

  1. For a great lunch or dinner experience, check out KEEM. Located in the Iteawon area, KEEM serves fantastic hummus and their French toast is also worth trying. It is on the pricier side, but with Seoul’s rising costs, it’s hard to gauge what’s considered expensive these days. You can find KEEM at:

KEEM Hannam 서울 용산구 한남대로27길 36-61 1층 Naver Map

  1. If you’re in the mood for beer and snacks, I highly recommend Kiwa Beer Taproom. Located in Anguk, this place is set in a traditional hanok (Korean house) and offers a wide range of tap beers along with a Korean-Western fusion menu. It’s a fantastic spot for a casual outing (once again priecier side haha) and some late giggles and talks though it can get quite crowded. Visit them at:

Kiwa Beer Taproom 서울 종로구 율곡로1길 74-7 1층 Naver Map

Lastly, I found some hummus at my local Lotte Mart for about 7,000 won (around 5 euros). It’s not the best I’ve had, but it’s a decent option when you’re in a pinch. Sometimes you have to make do with what’s available!

P.S. I recently got a new plant, but I’m still searching for the perfect name for it. Any suggestions? Fingers crossed this one will stick around longer than the last three-month wonders! 🌿

P.P.S. It seems my obsession with pink is showing no signs of fading anytime soon. Can’t help it—there’s just something about that shade that keeps pulling me in! 💗

Stay tuned for more adventures and misadventures. Until next time!

And for now…

…stay tuned

Au revoir

– M

#exploring&adoring

Introducing a New Blog Series #exploring&adoring for rediscovering joy in the small things in everyday. Welcome to the launch of a new series on my blog! Let me give you a peek into why I decided to embark on this journey.

Lately, I’ve found myself in a bit of an existential pickle. It’s strange to admit, but if you asked me what brings me the most joy these days, it’s the satisfaction of crossing something off my to-do list. This has led me to step back and reconsider what truly makes me happy.

I’m surrounded by great people, pursuing activities I love, and living in a charming place. Despite all this, I’ve found myself caught in a cycle of seeking meaning and making sure every moment is “productive.” In doing so, I’ve forgotten how to simply enjoy life’s simple pleasures. I rarely read for pleasure anymore; my reading material is now confined to thesis-related texts. While I’m interested in my academic work, the fear of not making every second count has become overwhelming.

After days of sprinting on the productivity treadmill, I find myself utterly drained and collapsing in front of the TV, which has surprisingly turned into a source of frustration rather than relaxation. My life feels like a constant race between tasks, ending with me becoming a couch potato. I’m determined to break this cycle. Despite all the wonderful experiences I’ve had, I often feel mentally disconnected from the moment, obsessively counting seconds and feeling guilty for not working.

I understand that it’s unrealistic to be upbeat every single day, but I believe we can choose to make the most of our experiences. I think finding balance might involve working diligently on my research and class prep, and then stepping outside for fresh air at least once a day as I live in an area surrounded with beautiful view of mountains and many cute cozy cafes, shops etc (not so many as other areas but still…). Also, I as someone with pretty high social anxiety (I know I am able to hide it pretty well lol) I will challenge myself with just going to some yet unexplored spots and just enjoying (or at least trying to haha) some alone time. I’m not suggesting I’ll abandon my work and spend my days idly—because, let’s face it, the sweetness of rest comes after a productive day. Instead, I plan to set clear boundaries so I can fully engage in work and then truly relax without guilt. What more I also have a camera which was sitting on the shelf for way too long and definitely needs to take a walk outside with me.

You might think it’s odd to use the word “numb,” but my biggest fear is losing the ability to enjoy things as I once did. Last November, I was seriously ill with meningitis (a near-death experience that’s now a peculiar story hahaha), and the strong medication left me feeling detached. The joy I once felt in my favorite shows, coffee shops, and streets seemed to vanish. This experience frightened me and fueled my desire to truly savor life.

I also believe that time becomes meaningful when we create something of value—whether thoughts, memories, or feelings that inspire further creativity. So, I’ve decided to start this blog series to rediscover simple joys without overthinking their significance. I don’t want to waste my time staying indoors all the time, nor do I want to miss out on the little pleasures in life.

Living in Korea right now, I’ll be sharing weekly reflections on what I’ve enjoyed: new places, foods, music, and activities that have brought me happiness. While it might seem paradoxical to add another task to my list to escape my goal-oriented rut, this series is about stepping back, exploring, and appreciating my surroundings more fully.

For instance, I’m currently sitting in one of my favorite cafes in Seoul—a place I’ll introduce in a future blog post (#ItsCoffeeTime). This cafe specializes in dripped coffee and has a playlist that’s a delightful mix of experimental and classic jazz, along with some indie artists and bands. It’s the kind of place that brings a sense of ease and peace to the mind. The staff is friendly without being intrusive, and the patrons seem to be happily immersed in their own little worlds.

Despite the calming atmosphere right now, my mind still plays its usual game of searching for meaning and worrying about wasting time. But right now finishing this post and I’m setting aside my laptop and just savoring my coffee without any tasks on my mind (let’s see if I can manage ten minutes of this!). Later, I’ll head home and, instead of diving straight back into my thesis, I plan to unwind with one of my favorite playlists and enjoy the rest of this warm Sunday night. Tomorrow, I’ll kick off the week fresh and ready, and for now I’ll make an effort to focus on my hobbies rather than stressing about work.

This post is a bit of a brain dump, but I’m confident that many of us feel overwhelmed by our goal-driven society. Join me as I embark on this journey to find joy in the everyday! This said, welcome to the launch of a new series on my blog!

And for now…

…stay tuned

Au revoir

– M

Wanderlog -> Paradise Found: Our Jeju Island Weekend Escape

This summer, I returned to Jeju Island for the third time, but it was a special trip—my first time back since the pandemic. It had been a long-anticipated getaway with my boyfriend, who, like many, struggles to get vacation time approved at work. Originally, we had planned a couples’ trip to Yeosu, another beautiful beach destination in Korea, but unfortunately, we had to cancel last minute when he couldn’t get the time off. I have to admit, I was pretty disappointed, thinking our chance for a vacation might slip away entirely. But, just when I thought all hope was lost, we managed to make it work! On August 9th, after he finished work around 6 PM, we boarded a late flight to Jeju with Jeju Air. It felt like the perfect spontaneous weekend escape.

But let’s start from the beginning. Minjun and I met halfway, since his office was on the way to Gimpo International Airport. On the way, he surprised me with a beautiful hat (though, I chose it myself, haha). We caught a late Jeju Air flight, and I was excited for this much-needed getaway.

To save some money, we took the bus instead of a taxi (only less than 2,000 KRW per person, compared to a 20,000 KRW taxi fare). The bus ride took about 35 minutes, while a car would’ve been just 20. By the time we got on the bus, it was past 10 PM, and most places were already shut for the night.

We finally arrived at the hotel, and that’s when things got a little… disappointing. We chose Grabel Hotel which is a modern, 4-star hotel. We chose this hotel actually because it was the closest one to the airport as, well, time was limited. Plus, the hotel has a rooftop pool with amazing ocean views, which I had been dying to check out.

But.. the staff wasn’t very friendly, and we didn’t feel very welcomed. Maybe it was because we didn’t look too fancy (to be fair, we were just two tired travelers), but it felt like we were treated as though we didn’t belong. For example, when we checked in, we weren’t given any info about breakfast. So, when I asked the front desk guy where breakfast was served and how it worked, his response was: “Wait… you have breakfast? Really?” Like, seriously? Dude, it’s your job to know this.Whatmore, the hotel didn’t allow food in the rooms (seriously?) unless it was room service, and if we wanted to eat in the room, we’d have to pay a 20,000 Korean Won cleaning fee. The all in experience was a bit of a letdown.

The good news was that we were able to book a nice suite in the hotel, thanks to some luck with Booking.com Genius rewards and discounts! Our room was actually amazing—on a high floor with a spacious bathroom, a big bathtub, a dining area, a lounging space, a TV, and, best of all, a direct view of the ocean. Another great perk was the lounge on our floor, open daily from (I think?) 3 PM to 6 or 7 PM. They had cakes, snacks, cookies, drinks, and even unlimited beer—all free of charge. A total win!

We were starving by this point, so we decided to head out in search of food. After some searching, we found a little local spot and grabbed a bowl of what I think was kimchi jjigae—it was comforting and delicious, of course, both of our phone batteries had died by then, so we couldn’t even capture the moment. After a satisfying (and late… very late) dinner, we headed back to the hotel, where I took a much-needed bath while dreaming about the next day.

By the way, a quick tip for anyone visiting Jeju: restaurants, cafes, and eateries close really early!

The next day Saturday was all about the beach and endless ocean time—and honestly, I couldn’t wait to dive in! Our day started with a quick breakfast and then we took the bus to our first beach destination.

This felt like a bit of an adventure, as we were relying on public transportation to explore the island. Luckily, the bus stop was right in front of the hotel, making it super convenient. Oh, and by the way, I have to mention—I really loved the dress I was wearing. I got it back in 2018, but it’s definitely one of my favorite holiday pieces!

Located about 20 minutes away from Grabel Hotel, Gwakji Beach is known for its warm waters and beautiful scenery. We were excited to spend the day soaking up the sun and taking in the stunning views of the coastline. If you’re planning to visit, here’s the location on Naver Maps for easier navigation. Definitely worth the trip! Obviously we took a stop at the local juice stand to get some tangerine fresh pressed juice (before we stopped at the pharmacy to get some extra allergy pils for me….).

After a fun time at Gwakji Beach (곽지해수욕장), we were pretty sandy and definitely not in the mood to put on our regular clothes. But before hopping on the bus to our next stop, I realized I wasn’t quite comfortable running around in my bathing suit (even though it wasn’t a bikini). So, I quickly popped into a local shop and grabbed an “Fantastic Jeju” shirt—problem solved! Haha.With my new shirt on, we caught the bus to Geumneung Beach (금능해수욕장) in Hallim-eup (한림읍), Jeju. The temperature was a sweltering 34°C, but with the sun cranked up, it felt more like 40°C—definitely a scorcher! You can find Geumneung Beach on Naver Maps if you’re planning to go!

After our second beach trip and a lot more ocean water to cool off, we were definitely feeling tired. But that didn’t stop us! We went to explore the area and found some pretty cute cafes. By the way… I got a pretty bad sunburn… which hurt sososososososoosos bad…

We headed straight to the rooftop pool at the hotel, grabbed some cocktails (which were actually included—score!), and relaxed while enjoying the stunning sunset.

By the way can you feel the pain of my sun burn…? >.< The day wrapped up with us enjoying some of the hotel’s facilities, and of course, I ended it perfectly with a relaxing bath.

The next morning, we had breakfast again and set off to explore more of Jeju. Unfortunately, I couldn’t swim in the ocean anymore because, well… it was that time again. But instead, we made the most of the day—we went horseback riding, visited a gallery, and even took a canoe out on the shore. Even though I was pretty sad about missing out on another ocean swim, the day’s highlight more than made up for it! But before I get to that—first, let me show off my OOTD because I absolutely loved it. Here are some pictures, haha!

Our first stop was the horse farm, and wow, it had been a long time since I last sat on a horse! I used to ride when I was little—around 5 or 6 years old—back when I lived in Hungary. Later, I took horseback riding classes again in boarding school in Denmark. But believe it or not, the last time I was actually on a horse was ten years ago! And a random fun fact—one of the zombie attack scenes from the Korean Netflix drama Kingdom was actually filmed on the other side of the horse farm! Haha, kind of wild to think about while casually riding a horse.

Then, the super nice guy from the horse farm—or actually, his wife—drove us to the gallery. She even recommended some great local restaurants that only the locals know about. Such a sweet gesture!

We saw a really unique exhibition on Jeju artist their life, and also 해녀 (haenyeo)—the legendary female divers of Jeju. These incredible women free-dive deep into the ocean without oxygen tanks to harvest seafood, carrying on a centuries-old tradition. It was fascinating to learn more about their history and way of life!

Then we headed to a so-called “hip” area near Hamdeok Beach (함덕해변), known for its charming cafés, trendy restaurants, and cute shops that attract tons of tourists. The vibe was super lively, and it was fun just strolling around and soaking it all in! Eventually, we caught a glimpse of the canoes and decided to give it a try. At first, it was super fun, but at some points, the waves got pretty intense, making it a little scary. At least they gave us these cute waterproof skirts to keep us from getting completely soaked—haha, a small but much-needed fashionable accent… who knew canoeing could be this stylish? 😂🚣‍♀️ Oh, and before hopping into the see-through canoe, they also gave us slippers to change into—because, obviously, wet shoes are not the vibe

After such an adventure, we definitely needed something sweet to cool down, lift our spirits, and reward ourselves for all the excitement (and slight terror) we had just experienced on the water! So, of course, we went on the hunt for a cozy café to indulge in some well-deserved treats. To be honest.. we went to two cafes..

Finally our highlight of the trip! Minjun had the best idea—renting Kakao Bikes to ride back to the hotel. We thought it would be a quick and easy ride, but we totally misjudged the distance. The bike paths were set in a way that took us on a much longer route, and we ended up biking for nearly two hours! But honestly, it was breathtaking—riding along Jeju’s coastal roads felt like paradise on earth.

For those who don’t know, Kakao Bikes are shared electric bikes you can rent through the Kakao T app. They’re super convenient, and you can pick them up and drop them off at designated spots around the city.

I must admit I have never seen something this beautiful. That was until the sun started to set… 😬 After about 40 minutes of biking, even with the help of the electric motor, things got a little too intense. It got dark fast, and at times, the path was way too close to the cliffs—like, we could hear the waves crashing 300 meters below, just centimeters from our wheels. And guess what? No real fences. OMG, way too scary. The moment we found a return station, we ditched the bikes and took the bus for the last three stops. But oh god… the bus was packed! We were exhausted, squished like sardines, but at least we made it back in one piece. What a ride!

The day ended with some room service and we enjoyed the last night of our vacation.And the next day came in a blink of an eye.

Then, eventually, we finally took a taxi (wow, we actually didn’t take the bus this time, haha) to the airport. We grabbed some coffee, and of course, I couldn’t resist picking up some cookies only available in Jeju from Paris Baguette (save my soul). The nutty caramel smell was absolutely driving me crazy while I was waiting for boarding.

We boarded the flight, and I was off to get a “vacation for my vacation,” while Minjun had to head straight to work—yep, we took the morning flight, and he had to dive right into a couple of overnight shifts. He works in news for a broadcasting station, helping with camerawork, so there was no rest for him!

And this was it for the trip to “paradice on earth”

P.s. very random fact—the first time I ever heard about Jeju Island was through the K-drama Paradise Ranch (파라다이스 목장). It’s an old-school rom-com from 2011, set against Jeju’s stunning landscapes, and follows a young couple who impulsively marry at 19, divorce soon after, and then fatefully reunite years later. Classic K-drama chaos! I remember watching it and falling in love with Jeju’s scenic beaches, green fields, and horseback riding scenes—who knew I’d actually experience all of that myself one day?

I think I should definitely re-watch it sometime… of course, only after I finish writing my thesis. Well… hopefully by summer. 🤞😂

And for now…

…stay tuned

Au revoir

– M

Seoul Odyssey Diaries -> Seoul room toor 🎀

As mentioned earlier, in Seoul, I reside in a villa with two rooms—a smaller one and a larger one—as well as a kitchen-corridor space. I opted to designate the smaller room as my sleeping area and the larger room as a combined living and workspace. I’ve included pictures of the spaces as they were on the day I moved in. Despite the presence of a bed and makeup area already in place, haha…

As I am working from home my, I realized the importance of creating distinct areas for relaxation and productivity. The living space had to be cozy but on the same time I wanted to have a office-cafe like mood. Incorporating a dedicated TV area and a functional workspace within the same room was essential to aligning my lifestyle needs with my interior design goals as sadly, in Seoul and the rent coast the living space I could afford was not allowing me to dedicate a separate room as an office.

To navigate this challenge, I began my self-guided interior design journey using a free design program. This allowed me to avoid the costly and time-consuming mistakes of buying furniture that didn’t fit or cluttered the space. I experimented with several different layouts, balancing a functional workspace with a comfortable lounge area where I could relax after a long day.

After finalizing the layout, I began searching for furniture, prioritizing affordability without compromising on aesthetics. I browsed Korean drifting apps such as Dangunmaket for unique finds and utilized promotion codes and sales to secure the best possible prices for what I envisioned as ‘perfect’ pieces.

Dangunmaket (단군마켓) which translates to carrot market (lol) is a mobile app in South Korea where users can buy and sell second-hand items, similar to other drifting or resale platforms. It allows individuals to list items they no longer need or wish to sell, and buyers can browse through various categories such as furniture, electronics, clothing, and more. The app facilitates communication between buyers and sellers through messaging features, enabling negotiations, inspections, and transactions.

And eventually everything started coming together… By strategically placing furniture and incorporating subtle design elements such as rugs and lighting I tried making the room pretty to my eyes. This approach not only optimized the functionality of the space but also reflected my personal style, contributing to a well-balanced living environment. One standout piece is my three-dollar thrifted lamp, adding a touch of whimsy and character to the room.

I tried giving the living room a bit of a modern feeling. Recently, the trend of Mid-century modern has been gaining popularity, and I must admit that I’ve eagerly jumped on this train as it aligns so well with my current aesthetics.For the TV area, my focus was on creating a cozy atmosphere with comfortable seating and ambient lighting, transforming it into a retreat for unwinding after a long day. Simultaneously, the workspace was designed to maximize efficiency and foster concentration, featuring ergonomic furniture and ample storage solutions to keep everything neatly organized.Even being in the same room I tried to kind of part this room into separate working and living spaces and tried doing so with the help of a rug.

I aimed to create a cozy bedroom, incorporating as much pink as possible. Lately, I’ve developed a bit of an obsession with the color pink points.

The kitchen mainly serves as a cooking space; barely eating there, but sometimes it’s nice to have an additional area to feel not as stuffed. The kitchen serves more as a living area for Kuki, my blue tongue skink.

Day by day, it’s starting to feel more like a home, though it’s also becoming increasingly chaotic, haha!

And for now…

…stay tuned

Au revoir

– M

Seoul Odyssey Diaries -> Finding a place to live in Seoul

As I mentioned in my last post, I have moved to Korea lately… And finding a place to live was not an easy journey.

To give a bit of background on how the Korean housing industry works, there are essentially two main aspects to consider: the type of housing and the payment method. This allows individuals to choose from various options based on how they prefer to pay for their living arrangements.

In South Korea, housing options for the average person generally fall into three categories based on the size of the living space:

  • One-room (원룸): These compact studio apartments typically consist of a single large room that serves multiple purposes, often including a kitchenette and bathroom within the same space.
  • Officetel (오피스텔): Known for their blend of “office” and “hotel,” officetels are studio apartments that may include small kitchen facilities and often have (but not necessarily) separate areas for sleeping and living, making them slightly larger than traditional one-room apartments.
  • Apartments (아파트): Larger than one-room and officetel units, apartments in Korea usually feature multiple rooms, including separate bedrooms, a living room, kitchen, and sometimes additional amenities such as balconies or extra storage space.

Also, in Korea you use pyeong (평) which is equal to approximately 3.3058 square meters or about 35.58 square feet. It’s commonly used in South Korea to describe the size of rooms or apartments. For example, when looking at apartment listings or discussing the size of a room in Korea, you might hear measurements like “30 pyeong,” which would mean 30 times the size of one pyeong, or around 99.18 square meters

Among these options, apartments are typically the most expensive and sought-after due to their amenities and convenience. Studio apartments come next in terms of expense, while living spaces in villas—usually older in style and construction—are generally the most affordable option. (Other types of housing, such as share houses, goshiwons, and guest families, exist but will not be discussed here.)

Apartments, especially those in complexes, are favored for their added conveniences like private security, communal cleaning services, and nearby amenities such as convenience stores, study rooms, libraries, gyms, and sometimes childcare facilities. However, older apartment complexes may not offer as many modern amenities.

Studio apartments or officetels are typically smaller spaces often with high ceilings and loft-like features. Although they may not be in high-rise buildings like apartments, they tend to be modern and cleaner compared to equivalent spaces in older villa-style buildings.

Lastly, villa living spaces are often favored by students or individuals new to living alone due to their affordability. While some villas may be well-maintained or newly remodeled, many are older and less modern in design and interior, making them less luxurious compared to apartments.

It’s worth noting that while most people may not stay in villas for extended periods, there are individuals and families who prefer these quieter, less urban areas often found in regions with a more relaxed, small-town atmosphere.

I personally have only lived in a villa myself (in a one-room last year and two-room now) but have visited friends who live both in officetels and apartments.

Usually you can either rent or buy a home but in Korea there are more options for that. Buying is way too expensive so I will not talk about this option.. First thing to keep in mind, the deposits for housing in Korea are huge.. And when I say huge I mean HUGE. And the more deposit you pay desto cheaper your rent gets. Then there is this: pay a big amount at once and ‘pay no rent at all’ system as well.

For example let’s take a one-room (around 14 square meters) style place in a villa which includes a “kitchen” and also gets a small bathroom-toilet place as well. Of course the area in which you will choose to live has a big influence over the price as well. Let’s imagine this place is somewhere near a train station not too far from the main areas, still not in the expensive zone such as Gangnam or Haewha. You can pay 5k in deposit and pay 600 rent for a small one room place nevertheless if you pay 20k your rent will be 300 per month and if you pay 50k you will only pay 150 rent per month. If you use the second option you pay around 100k and pay no rent at all. The deposit will be given back to you after you move out. Of course stuff like internet, gas, water etc. are paid extra.

I will add pictures of the place I stayed at last year so that you have some imagination of what I am talking about. I used to live in Geondae, a 6 minute foot walk from line 2 and 7. This place was a 5k deposit and 600 rent plus utensils and the so-called maintenance coast. which added up to roughly 650-700 a month. In winter tho with heating costs it was more. My room was pretty small and had one single bed and a small dining area with a small kitchen-place.

You can also see the transformation this place made through the time haha..

This said I will give a small insight into how the process of house-hunting went for me this year. I knew from the beginning that I could only afford rent-style living. The first crucial step was selecting the right area to live in. Economic factors played a significant role since rent prices vary widely depending on the neighborhood. This meant I had to look beyond the bustling city center and explore more affordable options further out. For me, proximity to a reliable metro line was non-negotiable. I preferred living within walking distance of the metro because I’m not a fan of buses—they tend to make me feel queasy. Especially with the rollercoaster-like rides in Korea.

Considering the need to go to Sogang University (accessible via lines 2 and 6) quickly and occasional volunteering at the Lithuanian Embassy (requiring lines 3, 5, and 1), finding a location with minimal transfers to both places was crucial. While my favorite parts of Seoul—Seongsu, Anguk, Mulle, Hanam—are ideal, they are beyond my budget. I aimed for a place larger than a one-room apartment, preferably with three rooms: one for work, one for sleeping, and one for hosting friends—a kitchen space was also essential.

In the end, three neighborhoods caught my attention: Bulgwan and Yeonshine (accessible via lines 6 and 3) in the northwest of Seoul, near its outskirts; Miya or Suyu (line 4); and Gunza (line 7), closer to the center but farther from both the University and Embassy. Despite their distance, Bulgwan and Yeonshine stood out as the most affordable options for apartments larger than 15 square meters, based on listings from mobile housing apps like Zigbang 직방. More than Bulgwan the area of Yeonshine seemed living-friendly so it was set. Yeonshine it should be. It took about two months of intensive research to identify a couple of suitable options through the app and then arrange viewings with a Budongsan 부동산 (housing broker company). 

The photos on the app often differed significantly from the real apartments, adding to the stress of the process. After meeting with numerous brokers and visiting multiple apartments, I eventually settled on a decent-looking option that met my basic criteria, though the search was draining both physically and emotionally. The apartment I am living in right now actually is a bit uphill and it is quite tiresome to get home and I keep on contemplating every time I am going outside. But why did I choose this in the first place? Because the apartment that I visited before this one was literally on a mountain it was pretty cheap considering it having three rooms and a extra kitchen space and terrace, nevertheless climbing up to this place was literally hell (it was not even hot at that time) so visiting the place I live in right now seemed more than fine at that time haha

So… In the end, I signed a two-year lease since shorter options were scarce, especially in less central areas with fewer foreigners and exchange students. And so, I found myself settling into what I now consider home, at least for the foreseeable future.

I’ll delve into more details about the layout, decor, and overall feel of my new place in the next post, as this one has already become quite lengthy.

And for now…

…stay tuned

Au revoir

– M